Give yourself a mini makeover

Dating at midlife single

Listening and wanting to know everything about her earns you major points. And women, lest you think you're off the hook, you're not. Don't get too flirty too fast, don't text, and definitely don't sext. Maybe you're lonely, horny, you want a girlfriend, need some company, or just need to get laid.

Plus, your experience and maturity give you more depth and better perspective in life. They talk about how awful their ex-wives are, and how much money they had to give them. Come and meet singles near you at one of our vibrant and informal Match nights. Come and meet other singles at our Match evenings and activities. They're smart, sane, and they're here to help.

Look at your clothes and see if you have any flowing feminine frocks you can wear for a first date or two. Despite the occasional dating disasters and mating missteps, there's a lot to love about you guys. Be natural, honest and spontaneous. Bye bye routine, hello surprise. Dating in midlife isn't always easy, but at least you're all in it together, and you can all make it great.

We love you guys

You want to look classy and alluring. Even though I'm talking to the guys here, many of these points apply to you too.

Arrange dates in the capital at our singles events. Those offer a touch of frost which softly catch the light and flatter and enliven the face. Guys that are too fast getting in are probably going to be too fast getting out.

In other words, you're furious. We love you guys and want the best for you, so here goes. Let go of your fear and allow yourself to love again.

Hair texture changes over the years and so does our skin tone. Experiment with a few of them and see what they can do for you. Create an album that reflects your personality.

We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you. Take a look at your wardrobe.

In other words you're furious

Your sizzle may have lost some fizz. You can be romantic and take the lead, but exercise patience.