He still wants to care for you

Dating a very nice guy

Stories of friends who get together can be sweet, and unrequited crushes on friends are always painful, but there are plenty of valid reasons not to date a friend. Being nice is not a ticket to a date with a person of your choice.

You do not have to be an equal-opportunity dater. The belief that women like jerks contains hints of misogyny because it stems from the stereotype that women want to be dominated and controlled. That, gentlemen, is a fact.

The asshole might as well, but whereas the asshole wants you to do his things, the nice guy will be open to yours. All these reasons are valid. You must have balance and not sacrifice treatment for looks etc. And when he is desired, your desire will be genuine, not something forced out of you by manipulative lies.

Being nice is not

When I began to study women dating habits the first thing I noticed was the smart ones liked men who treated them well. The nice guy is going to take off his shoes, offer them to you, and then carry your heels. He thinks being nice will work. Well, because women are bizarre creatures and the reason I know that is because I am one.

Stories of friends who

In addition to applauding men for taking on parenting duties that are expected of women, we praise them for sexual conduct that should be mandatory, not praiseworthy. Flirt all the time but only date guys who pursue you. It seemed like a horrible match.